Fear of Dentists - Fear of Debt

Fear of the Dentist - Fear of Debts?

I like to think I’m Wonder Woman ... but I’m not really (sorry to disappoint you). It occurred to me today the real importance of facing your fears, rather than hiding from them. We even know that by not facing up to things the situation can get much much worse, and yet we still do it? Why?

You want to get out of debt, you want to move on but why is the fear of getting out of debt worse than actually getting out of debt itself?

I am terrified of the dentist, and despite being a therapist and having the power at my fingertips to use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). I have never tackled this problem head-on. I am basically far too scared to even contemplate putting myself in an un-safe space. So my life just carries on and I’m none the worse for it. I go round healing others but I choose to ignore my dentist phobia.

Now I have sore gums and I know I have to sort them out, but when I think of all the dental problems I had in the past it really panics me. I phoned the dentist today to make an appointment. I was in tears when I came of the phone as I was that worked up about the whole thing.

My purpose of this is not to make you feel sorry for me for having to visit the dentist, although flowers, chocolate and sympathy would be very welcome thank you ;) I want to remind you that whatever you bury your head in the sand about IS NOT GOING TO GO AWAY.

Your debts will grow and grow, and grow beyond your control until you feel total panic at the mention of money, bank, debt or any other trigger words.

• Not opening your post will exacerbate your problems.
• Not sorting out your debt will exacerbate your problems.
• Not being true to yourself will also exacerbate your problems.

Take action NOW. Your first step is to decide that you are in charge of your life, and that you can overcome this. You’ve probably overcome many difficult things in your life so far. Work out how much you owe and then get out of debt today by visiting Experts in Debt to speak to a friendly advisor who deals with people who have your problem all day everyday.

If your debt is in charge of you, take it by the neck,give it a good shake and show it who is boss - that's you in case you haven't been listening!

Good luck, and let me know how you get on.